Population in China

I really don't think it's right that the Chinese government is using all of these different forms of birth control to lessen the population. Everyone should have a choice. It is their life and their family, and they should have the freedom to have as many kids as they want. I know there is a population problem in China, and I admit I'm not sure of another way to lessen the population, but I feel that telling women how many children they are allowed to have and forcing them to go on birth control or have an abortion is wrong.